I set up chairs and a long table in my backyard.
I bought balloons and tied them to my fence.
I ate dinner with my whole family.
I wanted to make my Dad's 50th birthday a special one.
My mom suggested we put together a book with 50 favorite things about our Dad. Never did we realize just how special this book would become. My mom made one of her own. My Dad was thrilled. He read it slowly and smiled, and laughed, and was even surprised! The last favorite line I wrote on my page was, "I love that you will be there at the hospital when I have my baby in April."
I was 6 weeks pregnant.
All I can think about today is how awesome of a Dad I have. He would do ANYTHING for me.
And he did.
Today I wish I had met him at the salon to give him a fresh birthday haircut. We would have talked about the times me and my sisters would do his hair when we were little, spraying his hair with a water bottle, a half an inch away from his head. He'd just sit there with a towel around his neck getting soaked.
Then he'd ask me what he should do about all these grey hairs... and I'd tell him he earned them.
I would have told him about the latest laughs we've had on Taryn's behalf.
Today she took me to her make believe castle in our kitchen and told me about all the flowers in front of it and how she needed to call Cinderella because she was getting married and wants her to come.
Then when I'd be finishing up and trimming his neckline we'd talk about how hairy he is...and how I could keep trimming down his back.
Then he'd get out his checkbook and I'd tell him he does NOT have to pay me cause he's my Dad! That would just be silly!
But he does anyway, then he says part of it is for Mom's hair too. I know he does it because he loves me and wants to help me in any way possible.
Then he'd give me a big hug and say thanks. I'd tell him it's no problem. Then he'd say bye, I love you, and I'd tell him I love him back.
Today I am celebrating my Dad's birthday. I'll meet friends and family for dinner and we'll enjoy our time together. Because knowing now what I didn't know back then is that life is precious and we must Live It.
Enjoy it.
Honor it.
Learn from it.
Love it.
Build it.
and then
Return from it.
Happy Birthday Dad!
Thanks for teaching me about life and how to live it fully.
Thanks for teaching me about life and how to live it fully.